Sex in the city

Personally I think it is no point pulling in clubs. Loud music, hard to make any conversation to be heard. Drunken chicks can't hear anything anyway..

Bars are the traditional pick-up point. So many people go there to pull and to be pulled. How can you stand out and beat other competitors?

Big NoNo:
Can I buy you a drink?
(Here we are, another wanker wants pick me up.)
Are you alone?
(No, I am not. You have to go away.)
You are so beautiful!
(They hear so many times!)

YesYes:

Oh Nice handbag/hairpin/necklace! where did you get them? I am looking for something like that for my sister/mother.

(women all think they are shopping experts and have a great taste of everything. You just kissed her ass. Buying for mum or sisters means you are kind family man but without girlfriend/wife! They like the hint as they think they are so clever! You open a chat-box about shopping experience. But who cares! She lets her guard down. You just smile and listen. At some point ask her be your consultant for shopping next day. Say a big shop's name and time, give her your number 'just in case she can't make it'. Make a excuse leave. Play busy/cool. Believe me,she will call.

people say pulling girls in bars,clubs.. That's too common! Girls there are ready to be pulled. And you will have so many competitions!
Plus not every girl goes to clubs/bars but every girl has to be down the streets at some point. Your lucky monment!

1st, find your target. Of cause if she is rushing like hell,don't bother.Talking to her phone,don't bother. Listening to her iPod,let her go. Find those slow-walkers/shop-wonders. They have time to spare. Please don't ask her 'what time is it?' .. That's too old,too obvious.Or 'I must say you are very beautiful.' For this you only can get 'thank you' then she walks away. You have to say something can last at least more than sixty seconds. Watching which direction she is going, walk pass her for a minute(no one wants a shock on the shoulder from behind),then turn back talk to her.Ask her direction, somewhere not far from you both walk towards to. If she tells you the answer, that means she is relax with you. You are not a freak to her.Also it tells you she is a friendly person. You don't want a tough cookie! After this chitty chatty, thank her and say: 'By the way, my friend is going to have a big party in Park Lane next Friday. So many people will come.Welcome to come. Here is my number/card. Please call me if you can make it.' Don't ever ask her number. It makes her nervious. Play cool, play calm. When she calls you, that means she is hooked by your glamous connections or she is so bored and she needs a company. You are in! Of cause the party is never exist so you can say 'unfortunely the party is cancelled but don't you mind have a coffee with me?'instead. Here you go!